What can you do to make a guy fall in love? Is there a sure way to make a guy fall head over heels in love with you? Can any girl make any guy fall for them? Here's my two cents on the subject of men, romance and love, and my advice on how to make a guy fall in love.

I've read a lot of articles recently that promise to teach you ways to make men fall instantly in love with you. Some of these articles do offer useful information on male psychology and can even give you helpful dating advice. But one thing strikes me as unusual and even a little silly about them - they all seem to take the view that it is easy to make a guy fall in love, that it can be done virtually overnight and, most strangely of all, that all men think the same way.

I can tell you that this simply isn't true. Men are strange creatures, yes, but they certainly do not all think the same way. It is not possible to make a guy fall in love overnight, certainly not if you take the view that all men think the same and can be manipulated in the same ways. Underestimating men is no way to understand them and certainly won't help you build relationships with them.

The truth is that men's attitudes towards love, women and relationships vary immensely. Firstly, a man's culture, ethnicity and upbringing will have a bearing on his attitude towards women. But even on an individual basis, what men look for in a woman can differ dramatically. Sexual appetites, personality types, personal preference and even hobbies and interests all come into play when a man looks for a woman. How quickly he falls in love, and whether or not he will fall in love, will depend on all of these and, most significantly, on your compatibility.

So, with this in mind, how do you make somebody fall in love. The best advice I can give is simply to be yourself. Let him see what kind of person you are and leave the rest to chance. Providing you are compatible and you don't do anything to spoil things, he'll fall in love with you. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Another important tip is to be patient; you can't make a guy fall in love, no matter what you do.